
Mark asks…
Regarding the Find Madeleine Fund…?
According to www.findmadeleine.com:
“Madeleine’s fund is a non charitable not-for-profit company, which has been established to help find Madeleine McCann and to support her family and bring her abductors to justice. Any surplus funds will be used to help families and missing children in the United Kingdom, Portugal and elsewhere in similar circumstances. If there are surplus funds Madeleine’s Funds can be converted into a charity.”
Based on these facts – can anyone explain to me how they think Gerry and kate McCann can possibly profit from this fund? They are not directors of the fund and cannot make decisions on how the money is spent.
Inevitably, some will say they are enjoying an extended holiday at the moment, wasting the money on trips, creches for the other kids… but does it strike you that they can possibly be enjoying this “new-found wealth” because they are always going to be questioned on how the fund is being spent.
Actually Heather, I think you’ll find that there ARE laws covering the distribution of funds from a not-for-profit company limited by guarantee when public money is involved.
With respect – the Find Madeleine Fund is always going to have to be a bit more accountable than the local grocers, don’t you think? There are regulatory bodies who are going to be on their backs permanently, given the level of public interest. Also the have declared an intention to seek charitable status, which will only come if their previous record is squeaky clean.
littleprofit – I suggest YOU read the question again. “Not-for-profit” is the clue. Declare that, and then make a profit, you will be held accountable.
It is not possible to become a charity as quickly as they set the fund up, hence why it isn’t a charity.
justmeagain – whether they are child neglecters or not, this question relates to the Fund. I do not support the McCanns actions as parents, and if there is a criminal case to answer then I hope justice is done. This is a question regarding the money, not everything else.
Ok Heather, can you explain to me how the company is going to get away with “squandering” 900k of public money, when the public are following every penny spent? Its a bit unlikely?
You are missing my point Heather – the whole theme of the question was abt how it would be possible for them to use the money for their own means when the public is following everything as closely as they are, whether the fund is a charity or not.
If that’s the case Heather, and you are certain that the company have and will continue to spend the money however they like – just answer yes or no – do you think the public are stupid enough to wear any exploitation?
nora, you say no-one should donate to such a fund – why have millions done so then? Do you not think these millions will want to know the minutae of what their money has gone on?
porti answers:
I’ve just explained why in the last question you answered.
‘Fund’ is just in the name of the Limited Company that has been set up. It is in no way a charitable trust and not subject to any of the legistlation charities are.
Legally it could vanish tomorrow and the McCanns need never explain what happened to the money. Morally they would be pretty low to do so but you just don’t know….
My previous answer –
Funandgames I’m afraid you are away out. The McCanns can do whatever they like with the money. It is a Limited Company in their name with family members as directors. It can be wrapped up at anytime with no explanations offered and at no point are they under any legal obligation to state where the money has gone.
Morally they are but I don’t fancy the chances of that happening.
What you are saying is completly right for a charitable trust of affiliated companies (ie charities that employ people and pay salaries) but at no point had the ‘fund’ been given charitable status excluding them from all the legistlation you mention.
You can call your own Limited Company whatever you want. I could open one called ‘Buy Heather New Shoes Fund’ or ‘Save the starving babies fund’ and either way if people were blind enough to donate into it they would have no right to know what I done with THEIR money as it was mine the minute it cleared in the bank.
The new information on the webstie – http://www.findmadeleine.com/fund/
was not there when the find started and is obviously in response to the criticism received. They are voluntaraly following a code of conduct which in reality means sweet FA.
EDIT
It is the McCanns or whoever is running the ‘Fund’ that named them a NON CHARITABLE not for profit organisation which is fine. But they are Madeleine’s Fund: Leaving No Stone Unturned Limited: Company Registration Number – 6248215. Registerd the same as the local grocers round the corner. If you went in and started handing him fivers and he put them in the bank he wouldn’t have to tell you what he done with them.
Wrong again I’m afraid – legally and technically there is no difference. Morally yes but that is the only obligation on them. Exactly who do you think is going to be monitering them? The Charities Commision has absoloutly nothing to do with them becuase it isn’t a charity and has had to declare itself as a Limited Company from day one, albeit in very small writing after the *We’re now accepting paypal* banner.
It was DENIED charitable status becuase a charity acts for the greater good of all, not one.
I give up, you are completly missing my point. The money in that account now is the Companies, not the publics becuase many gulliable members of the PUBLIC GAVE money to the COMPANY. Technically the company can do as it pleases with it.
I can’t simplify the situaiton any more.
It would appear that a large chunk of the money has already been spent on lawyers and trips away for Gerry – we don’t know how much and we never will and don’t have any right to know. If you are keeping an eye on how they spend their money you aren’t doing a very good job. But then again the Fund isn’t accountable to anyone other than the directors it employs so your agrument is a non starter.
I don’t know how the company has spent the money, no one here does for sure and no one has the right to know – that is the whole point.
And that was the hardest 2 points I’ve ever earnt!

Joseph asks…
madeline! i know this sounds selfish?
i know this sounds really selfish and i dont want it to come across as being a bitch,but i come back from portugal the day madeline was supposed to return home and we booked the same resort as madelines family it was a nice appartment but without sounding rude my holiday was ruined when leaving my apartment we were met my the news presenters with sad faces and then people walking round all upset, Dont get me wrong i feel bad for madeline but no hr parents if you ask me they brought it on themselves, i have spoke to first choice about the holiday and they are considering refunding my money,
I hope that madeline returns soon instead of her being abused and sexually attacked i hope she is dead she doesnt deserve any of this if i was madelines pants i would want my two safe kids to return home to england with family instead of putting them through hell with them they are only young.
everyone is email me back sying im evil for saying i hope she is dead i amd not being heartful i amd stating that it is nt her fault so why should she be raped because of what he parents done wrng she shouldnt have to live with that.
cooltyger shut up you are pathetic grow up you know what i hope you were dead/
katrina you better be quiet i dont pay over £2,000 for a holiday to hand out leaflets to help parents who brought it on themselves and whoppy fucking do a for your sister
i say what i mean ROXY and what i have wrote i feel the parens should fel guilt thats why i hope shs dead
porti answers:
If you were madeleines pants!?

Paul asks…
Will your prayers be with Madeleine Mccann?
Madeleine was abducted on 3rd May 2007 in Praia da Luz, Portugal, 9 days before her 4th birthday. She was taken from our holiday apartment where she was sleeping with her younger brother and sister whilst we were dining 50 yards away. Despite a massive investigation led by the Portuguese police and supported by the British police, we still do not know who has taken her, why she was taken or where she is. In addition, private investigators based in Spain are now following up any leads regarding Madeleine’s disappearance..
I live in Plymouth England, and i nearly cried my eyes out when Madeline Mccann has been missing for over 1 year now, We dont know how madeleines feeling, Lost, Lonely, Scared..
Will you pray for Poor maddie who needs her family, in who her family needs maddie.. Come Home Madeleine! We love you..
Pictures of poor little innocent Madeleine Mccann:
http://static.sky.com/images/pictures/1531711.jpg
http://static.sky.com/images/pictures/1534096.jpg
http://www.abc.net.au/reslib/200705/r143631_499196.jpg
http://www.findmadeleine.co.uk/MadeleineMcCann_images/MadeleineMcCann.jpg
http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://bp2.blogger.com/_IlwcTx9Q628/RkV-TMXTVfI/AAAAAAAAAms/j-nI2FuxDUI/s400/Madeleine02.jpg&imgrefurl=http://hi5.com/friend/group/2139956–HELP…%252BFINDING%252BMADELEINE%252BMCCA–front-html&h=370&w=340&sz=33&hl=en&start=18&um=1&tbnid=3zLI_yn0Z4NYuM:&tbnh=122&tbnw=112&prev=/images%3Fq%3DMadeleine%2BMccann%26um%3D1%26hl%3Den%26sa%3DN
http://img.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2007/05_02/madeleine1PA2405_468x550.jpg
http://pictures.directnews.co.uk/liveimages/Madeleine+McCann_1111_18198707_0_0_7001454_300.jpg
http://img.timeinc.net/time/daily/2007/0709/morocco_girl0927.jpg
http://pictures.directnews.co.uk/liveimages/Madeleine+McCann_1111_18203564_0_0_70
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/219/507790135_f249769fa7_o.jpg
http://brightcove.vo.llnwd.net/d4/unsecured/media/86259178/86259178_1317102791_141488df6b798d7b459e36ea8a6c0a5c05fd6691.jpg
http://www.smh.com.au/ffximage/2007/05/07/mccann_narrowweb__300x812,0.jpg
http://www.hoax-slayer.com/images/Madeleine-McCann.jpg
http://images.icnetwork.co.uk/upl/liverpoolpost/nov2007/7/5/07CE7E35-BF3A-B86A-D4B88DD51B5C6F18.jpg
Family Picture:
http://www.news.com.au/common/imagedata/0,,5656282,00.jpg
porti answers:
Oh yes I will pray!I remember seeing this on the news,this is terrible!!I couldn’t even begin to imagine what that feels like,I Have 3 small kids,my youngest is 2,I don’t know if I could live without any of them.I know they have 2 other children to care for but i honestly don’t know how they do it,it must be THEE hardest thing in the world to go through and I’ll pray for them to get their beautiful innocent baby girl back,God Bless that poor baby girl and her dear family.

Rachel asks…
Is my wife treating me badly?
I am married for 7 years and have 2 beautiful children. Lately I feel my wife is treating me badly. We were away in Portugal and I got very ill the last 2 days of the holiday so when we got home I had to see the doctor and was lucky to get an appointment. My wife said the appointment time did not suit her as she was hungry and needed dinner. I hadn’t eaten in a few days as I was so ill so I dropped her to a restaurant on the way to the doctor. When I came home my wife headed off to do some clothes shopping and and I stayed with the kids. I was so ill and so weak. When she arrived home she started arguing with me that I did not do any hoovering and told me to go sleep in the spare room.
I could not argue as I hadn’t the enery and she accused me of faking my illness. Now I am recovering and feel a bit better she wants me to spend a weekend with her family 400 miles away. I said no as I still feel weak and she is turning nasty telling me i have to go. After a lot of screaming and shouting (her, not me) she left for her planned weekend with her family. I have been sleeping in the spare room all week and she is demanding to know why I am not in our room. I told her she told me to go there and I am not coming back until she treats me with respect.
She said she treats me very well but I feel the dog is treated better.Is she treating me badly? And what can I do to make my life with her better as I am so fed up right now?
porti answers:
She is treating you like sh*t. If this started out of nowhere and is uncharacteristic of her, it sounds like something is seriously wrong with her. She could be bitter about something you did or didn’t do a long time ago, she could have a guilty conscience about something is now lashing out about it, it could be any number of things. But it is certain that something is NOT right with her or this situation. Don’t let her step all over you. Marriage, any relationship, is a team, a partnership, and she is acting like a dictator by the sounds of it. Good luck.

Charlie asks…
shall i move on from this relationship? i can’t do it even though i try and try?
My boyfriend and i have been together 5 years, we split up lat summer and for one year we have been on and off lately we tried to work things out and planned on a family etc
repeatedly i feel let down by him but he says im just jealous
On a friday i wanted to meet him he told me he was meeting a mate instead, i asked to join him and he was very blunt NO
Then one day he says he will come to my work, i change my shift to finish early and make it easy for him, then he says he booked a quiz night at his club and he can’t see me till 11pm , i ask to join him, he says it’s only member and that he will meet me at 11 end of story
then on a saturday when i want to meet he is off to a boxing match with mates
and last , he tells me i want to spend the weekend together, in my mind i feel so happy, then on tuesday he says he is off to portugal with a mate to check out a property, i went mad at him, i creid and cried to him as i felt like a doormat, he said he was not changing his plans
I played the victim , saying i loved him and wanted to be with him and the day he leaves he text em to say why don’t you come on saturday ?but you told me you were working and couldnt make it??
he says he loves me and wants a family but that im irrational just because he goes away for 5 days ? am i , am i jealosu, crazy ? or a total doormat?
He now plans to spend the bank holiday with me but i feel like i don’t even want to have my phone on from next week when he retruns as he feels he can have me as it suits me and im fed up. I love him and im so tired of plauying games but then again if i give up this time he will feel anything he does, i will just acept, even though in his eyes im just a little girl having a tamtrum. Im notim dissapointed and feel lonely and sad he doesn’t even text me from pORTUGAL knowing that he was the one who let me down
porti answers:
Sarah sounds like he is just using you when it’s convenient for him!
Whatever you do don’t start a family with him until you have some ground rules agreed on.
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